What Happened to My Dad?


The aroma of burnt sugar hung heavy in the air, a stark contrast to the usual Sunday morning symphony of sizzling vadas and brewing coffee. Ten-year-old Rohan stood frozen in the doorway of the kitchen, his eyes wide with disbelief. His father, a meticulous architect who could design intricate blueprints with his eyes closed, was surrounded by a chaotic mess of blackened pots, spilled milk, and a smoking, lopsided sweet dish that looked more like a volcanic eruption than a celebratory treat.
"Papa! What happened?" Rohan finally managed, his voice a mix of concern and amusement.
His father, Vikram, sighed dramatically, wiping a smudge of soot from his cheek. "Well, my little chef," he said, his usual calm demeanor replaced by a theatrical despair, "it seems your father, the master of straight lines and perfect angles, is utterly incompetent when it comes to the delicate art of cooking."
Rohan giggled, stepping carefully around a puddle of sticky oil. "But you always make such amazing things with your hands! Buildings, furniture..."
Vikram slumped onto a kitchen stool, looking genuinely defeated. "Different skills, beta. Different skills. Some things just aren't meant for me, no matter how hard I try." He gestured to the disaster zone with a blackened spatula. "This… this is proof."
Over the next few days, Vikram continued his "cooking experiments," each one more disastrous than the last. He attempted cookies that resembled charcoal briquettes, bread that could double as a doorstop, and even tried to make a simple dosa that ended up glued to the pan. Rohan watched, initially entertained, then increasingly perplexed. His father, a man known for his perseverance and problem-solving abilities, was giving up at the first sign of failure.
One afternoon, Rohan found Vikram staring glumly at a halwa. "Papa," Rohan began hesitantly, "why don't you just… look up a recipe? Or ask Mom for help?"
Vikram sighed again, a deep, theatrical sound. "What's the point, Rohan? Some people are just not good at certain things. I've tried, haven't I? Clearly, baking is just not in my DNA." He threw his hands up in mock surrender.
Rohan frowned. This wasn't like his father. Vikram always encouraged him to keep trying, whether it was learning a new sport or tackling a difficult math problem. "But Papa," Rohan persisted, "remember when I couldn't ride my bicycle? You didn't just give up. You held onto the back and ran with me until I got the balance."
Vikram looked up, a flicker of something unreadable in his eyes. "That's different, Rohan. That was… physical. This is about inherent talent."
The conversation ended there, leaving Rohan feeling uneasy. He couldn't shake the feeling that something was off. His father's dramatic failures and quick surrender felt… staged.
The twist came a few days later. Rohan was helping his mother clean out the attic when he stumbled upon a dusty scrapbook. Inside, tucked away between faded photographs, were several newspaper clippings. The headlines read: "Local Architect Wins National Cooking Competition," "Vikram Sharma's Award-Winning Cashew Burfi," and "Father-Son Duo Bake Their Way to Charity Fundraiser Success." The accompanying photos showed a much younger Vikram, beaming proudly next to elaborate burfies and perfectly golden bondas.
Rohan’s jaw dropped. His father? A cooking champion? This couldn't be the same man who had recently turned their kitchen into a culinary wasteland.
He raced downstairs, scrapbook in hand. Vikram was in the living room, pretending to struggle with assembling a simple Lego set, another recent "incompetence."
"Papa!" Rohan exclaimed, thrusting the scrapbook open. "What is this?"
Vikram looked at the clippings, a slow smile spreading across his face. The theatrical despair vanished, replaced by his usual warm, knowing gaze.
"Ah, you found my little secret," he said, taking the scrapbook. "Those were from a long time ago, beta. Before I became obsessed with straight lines and right angles."
"But… why the terrible baking now?" Rohan asked, utterly confused.
Vikram sat beside him, putting an arm around his shoulder. "Remember when you were getting discouraged because you weren't immediately good at cricket? You said some kids were just 'naturally talented' and there was no point in trying if you weren't born with it."
Rohan's eyes widened in realization.
"I wanted you to understand, Rohan, that 'natural talent' is often just a result of practice and perseverance. Even something I was once good at, like baking, looks like a disaster now because I haven't done it in years. Giving up easily, assuming you're just 'not good at something,' prevents you from ever discovering what you're truly capable of achieving with effort."
He pointed to the newspaper clippings. "I wasn't born knowing how to bake those things. I practiced, I failed, I learned. Just like you will with cricket, or anything else you set your mind to."
Rohan looked at the photos of his younger father, a skilled baker, and then back at the memory of the burnt sugar and the lopsided cake. The unexpected, messy lesson had sunk in. He finally understood. It wasn't about inherent talent; it was about the willingness to try, to fail, and to keep learning. And sometimes, the most important lessons are learned not through perfect examples, but through wonderfully orchestrated, delicious disasters.